Rage inside to become something big.
Has it ever occurred to you? The desire to be something big, achieve something more significant than what you are doing. In other words, a solid voice to prove them wrong and win your battles, doing right by your side. Consider yourself on the right path.
The issue is this energy comes to us in bursts; it stays for a while, and then we move on to what we usually do. Imagine yourself in a lot of emotional pain, which makes you cry loud; it can be because of someone you remember but can’t talk to or a feeling where you pour in love but don’t see getting it back, or someone at your work says something to you which made you self-doubt about your worthiness. At these moments, we cry or drink to numb ourselves and make these feelings go away, and the next day, we are the same person as we were.
If you want to win and enjoy the wins, you must also embrace this pain. Embracing pain will teach you the actual value of happiness and success. We constantly compare ourselves to others; for example, I am failing at this where, as others just got it casually. But don’t lose hope; your day to shine will come. And when it does, you will know the actual value of it, and you will make the most out of it. For this to happen, you need to contain that pain, that rage we spoke about, into you and not let it go. It would help if you turned this into consistency and moved towards your daily goal, one step at a time. Just worry about that next step; things will happen your way if not today, tomorrow, or soon. But if you give up, you lose, and they win. You might want a car very severely today, but you won’t get it today; this is when you show patience and consistency. Maybe soon, not just any car, but a Lamborghini will be waiting for you.
When you feel bad for yourself, say what’s true to you. Look into the mirror and say what you are now: you are fat; say I am fat. If you feel dumb, look in your eyes and say you are dumb, but the next moment after this, start working on yourself so the next day, you can say good things about yourself in the same mirror and enjoy that feeling of winning.
I hope you win your battles. May you find all the strength within yourself and not outside in somebody else.
